How I Became a DJ: The Journey of DJ Romily

A Childhood of Music: Finding My First Rhythm

Music has always been in my life, like a quiet hum in the background, waiting to be brought to the forefront. At just seven years old, I picked up an accordion for the first time. Little did I know, this moment would lay the foundation for my lifelong journey in music. For six years, I practiced, felt the weight of discipline, and understood the joy of creating something beautiful out of nothing. Playing music was never just about the notes; it was about expressing something deep within me.

But life has its twists and turns, and as I grew older, the pressures of reality took me away from that early love. Yet, in the quiet moments, music would still find me. It was always there, waiting for the right time to call me back.

Discovering a New World: Organizing Events and Learning from Legends

In my twenties, I found myself drawn to the energy and vibrancy of electronic music. It was more than just a genre—it was a feeling. I began organizing events, bringing international DJs like Cosmic Gate, Gareth Emery, and Paul Van Dyk to perform. Even though I wasn’t the one behind the decks, I felt the pulse of the music. I could see how it united people, how it transformed a room. It was magical.

Being backstage and experiencing the DJ life from behind the scenes gave me invaluable insight into their world—their preparation, the energy before stepping on stage, and the way they interacted with the crowd. I saw how the music they played wasn’t just tracks, but extensions of their souls, connecting deeply with the audience. This experience would later shape my journey as DJ Romily.

Even as I built a successful career in the software industry, I never strayed far from music. Organizing those events showed me just how powerful music can be in bringing people together. Though I hadn’t yet stepped behind the decks myself, the seeds of DJ Romily were being planted.

Falling in Love Again: Rediscovering Music

At 19, I made a promise to myself: every month, I’d buy a new piece of music. I started with compilations like Club Rotation, then dove deeper into the world of Armin van Buuren’s A State of Trance albums. Every beat, every transition, every melody felt like a new story, and I loved how these DJs could take their audience on a journey with just sound. It was as if their music spoke to me personally, inviting me to follow a path I hadn’t yet fully understood.

Standing in the front row at Armin van Buuren’s performances, I felt something stir inside me. The way he looked at the crowd, the way he shared his energy, it was clear—music wasn’t just a job for him. It was his passion. His mantra, “Music is my passion,” echoed in my heart. I realized then that I had the same passion; I just hadn’t found my way to express it yet.

The First Steps: Private DJ Lessons and My First Equipment

Determined to dive deeper into the world of DJing, I began taking private DJ lessons twice a week for six months. These lessons were my introduction to the technical side of DJing—learning how to mix tracks, build sets, and control the energy of a room. It wasn’t easy, but every session gave me a new perspective and brought me closer to understanding the craft.

After my lessons, I decided to take the plunge and invest in my first professional DJ setup. With my new gear, I began practicing relentlessly, recording my mixes, and sharing them on platforms like SoundCloud and YouTube. These early mixes weren’t perfect, but they were mine, and they marked the beginning of my journey as DJ Romily.

Taking a Leap: Learning from the Best

Years later, as life began to settle, I felt a pull. I enrolled in DJ and producer Masterclasses with Armin van Buuren and Deadmau5. I wanted to understand what made those magical moments on stage happen. How could they create such emotional experiences for their listeners?

The more I learned, the more I felt my confidence grow. But still, I held back. Even as I mastered blending tracks, perfecting transitions, and learned how to control the energy of a room, I wasn’t sure I’d ever have the courage to step up myself. Could I really become DJ Romily? The answer wasn’t clear yet.

Overcoming the Fear: My First Performance as DJ Romily

Fear has a funny way of holding us back, even when our hearts know what we truly want. I told my DJ instructor, “I don’t think I’ll ever perform.” The idea of stepping behind the decks in front of people terrified me. What if I wasn’t good enough? What if I made mistakes?

But then, something unexpected happened. An opportunity arose to perform. My hands shook, my heart raced, but I knew I had to try. As I stepped behind the decks for the first time as DJ Romily, I felt the crowd’s energy wash over me. It wasn’t about perfection anymore. It was about connection.

The moment I pressed play, all the fears I had melted away. In their place, there was joy, excitement, and an overwhelming sense of belonging. I wasn’t just playing music—I was sharing a piece of myself. And that, I realized, was what being DJ Romily was all about.

Finding My True Path: Embracing DJ Romily

Since that first performance, I’ve learned something invaluable: music isn’t just something I do—it’s who I am. DJ Romily isn’t just a name or a persona; it’s the embodiment of everything I’ve worked for, everything I’ve felt. It’s the joy of creating, the fear of taking risks, and the triumph of overcoming those fears.

Now, every time I stand behind the decks, I’m reminded of how far I’ve come—from a seven-year-old learning the accordion to a woman who embraced her passion later in life. As DJ Romily, I’m finally living the truth I’ve always known: Music is my passion.

The journey of DJ Romily hasn’t been a straight line, but every twist and turn has led me to where I am today. From childhood accordion lessons to organizing events with international DJs like Gareth Emery , Paul Van Dyk, Markus Schulz and many more to overcoming my fear of performing, I’ve learned that it’s never too late to find your true path. As DJ Romily, I know now that music will always be my GUIDING FORCE, MY PASSION, and my GREATEST JOY.